From: Dennis Perman DC, for The Masters .. Masters9@aol.com What if you knew a way to create your ideal practice and your ideal lifestyle? Would you work hard up to a certain point, and then after a while lose interest, or would you take action on it and follow through until your life was just the way you want it? You're probably thinking, hey, if I thought I had a way to make my life the way I want it, of course I would follow through. And yet, too often, knowing the way is not going the way, as Dr. Markson reminds us. There is a vital factor to be considered before you can set meaningful goals and develop effective strategies for accomplishing them. At The Masters, we teach that happiness, success and fulfillment come from you, not to you -- that who you are, and how you show up, will determine how well what you do works. That's what our Identity-Based approach is all about -- you must be the kind of person who would be able to take the actions that would lead to your goals, and if you are not, your first plan must be to transform yourself into someone who could. At our Master Plan 2000 event this weekend, this issue was brought to the forefront -- your identity determines your capacity, and your capacity determines your results. If you've been having trouble growing past a certain point, whether in practice, in relationships, financially, or in life in general, it may be that there are some weaker areas you have not addressed that are holding you back, weaker areas that are limiting your capacity. If those weaker areas are procedural, you'll have to change what you're doing -- better marketing, improved patient education, smoother processing of paperwork, more clearly defined and enforced policies, etc.. If the weaker areas stem from your self- concept, in other words, how you are showing up based on your beliefs, values, habits and behaviors, then improving on your procedures will only partially help. You'll have to look more closely at developing yourself inside the skin, by noticing where you have been falling short, and by working on those areas. Obstacles like fear of rejection or confrontation, lack of self esteem or confidence, or insufficient motivation are examples of inner weaker areas that you can improve upon with a little focus and persistence, and often, some coaching or training will accelerate the process and decrease the pain and inefficiency of the learning curve. You know yourself better than anyone else -- be honest. Where could you direct your attention, to manifest a better version of you? Could you manage your time better? Could you be kinder in your self assessment, or to those around you? Could you be more patient, or more reliable, or more passionate? Do you need to change a habit, or develop a new, empowering one? By being willing to address weaker areas, you can propel yourself to new levels of accomplishment. This willingness to continually refine and improve yourself is a common denominator of all winners in life -- keep yourself on the path to mastery, and you'll surely reap the rewards you deserve.